New Beginnings
I’m so glad that the last Mercury Retrograde with its post-shadow phase and the eclipse that followed have all ended. It was a very intense time and I was having vivid dreams throughout the entire season.
I’m excited for the new energy of this season and for starting to work on a marketing strategy for my ebook. If you still didn’t get your copy, then now is the time.
The ebook is a self-help guide with a memoir narrative. There are personal stories, weaved into a self-help guide for finding one’s true self, building self-worth and learning how to set boundaries with others.
I’m looking forward to hearing your thoughts on the book and to start my project of marketing the ebook to a wider audience. I invested so much effort into this ebook. I also worked with a book coach/editor and I hired a talented designer to design the entire book.
You can get your copy for only $9.99 USD from this page.
Manifesting Love
What I discovered after years of practicing the law of attraction to manifest a relationship is that you truly can’t manifest by being the old version of yourself, who’s – in my case at least – chronically single.
The reason is that the journey of manifesting a relationship is really all about evolving into the new personality who’s living from a totally new, radically different state of being.
It’s not only about changing your mindset to be more positive or to vibrate higher (as most manifestation coaches preach).
Growing into the new version of yourself involves being, giving and attracting love. It’s a milestone away for those of us who were raised with abuse or toxic behaviors. And that’s why it takes us longer to manifest. In my honest opinion.
Imagine shifting your being from a survivor of narcissistic personality disorder (emotional and verbal abuse) to someone who is thriving in life, giving love, attracting kindness and love wherever they go.
That’s a huge leap and shift in energy, vibration and way of being and engaging with the world and others.
The good news is that it’s doable. And my ebook gives you all the steps to get there in a faster and more effective way.
Ignore Family and Societal Conditioning
Let me explain this tip with a clear example from my life. My parents were all about career, business, hard work and success.
My father keeps asking me (until today) if I want to start a business and other stuff along that topic.
Being a creative personality (who already started a life coaching business that failed), I know that all I want is to write books, blogs and to sell these books or ebooks. I don’t care about being a best-selling author, because I’m a hippie at heart.
All I want is to continue my writing career and to sell books online or offline. That’s it. I don’t care about scaling my business or brand. And that’s when I realized that the term ‘solopreneur’ applies to people like me.
We are different than entrepreneurs. Entrepreneurs are all about scaling their business and making more money. We just want to do what we love and what we’re passionate about, while making some money along the way.
In my case, I’m not only ignoring my family conditioning (be a businesswoman), I’m taking this self discovery and growth journey to another level. And I’m creating my own future reality by saying that I want to be a 1950’s housewife.
My mother was never the ideal housewife. She was a businesswoman. We had helpers at home who cooked and did all the house chores. I actually never saw my mother do a single house chore, in my entire life.
Maybe seeing who we don’t want to become, becomes the main catalyst to our growth and evolution.
Since the pandemic started, I’ve been focused on practicing cooking. And today, I make mostly Asian food and the occasional pasta dish. I also mix things up with some Mexican sometimes.
I also recently learned how to make an omelette and gluten-free pancakes (I just perfected these two days ago!).
I share this to say that manifestation is a journey, not a destination. I love being the new woman, who’s not only focused on career. But who enjoys being creative in the kitchen and who spends a good amount of her day doing all types of house chores.
Which reminds me, I need to go wash dishes. I actually don’t own a dish washer. So I cook almost daily and I wash all the dishes on my own.
Also, since the pandemic started, I clean my own apartment (balcony included) and I do all the laundry including the linen.
I just love my new way of living and being. And this is not universal. Each person of us has a choice to create the life that feels aligned with them the most.
What I’m trying to say is that you want to do the inner work to discover what that looks like for you. And to start ignoring the family and societal conditioning. Because only you can decide what type of relationship and life you want to create.
My ebook can help you start the journey of uncovering exactly who you are and what type of life you want to create.
Love,
Leela
