Mercury Retrograde Clarity
Wow! This time, I didn’t pay much attention to Mercury Retrograde and I didn’t really experience anything major until today.
I was researching ideas for a future trip for about two days. And then, this morning, I suddenly had so many inspirations and places to explore. It was so powerful and I feel so grateful for this Mercury Retrograde clarity and breakthrough!
What was this Mercury Retrograde like for you? Did you experience any synchronicities or anything major?
Let me know in the comments.
Finding your True Self
As usual, I’ve been active on my other blog, Saudi Diva. Make sure to check out the latest stories on there as there’s a lot of advanced and new manifestation tips and methods.
I was getting a massage done with a body works therapist a few years ago. She was a woman over 60 I believe.
I was briefly sharing with her about my love manifestation journey and she said something that stayed with me.
She said: “love manifestation takes time.” And I think that her words were so accurate and true.
The reason that manifesting love has a longer timeline than manifesting anything else is that the process is tied to our identity and self-concept.
Of course, there’s the part that we must do the healing work, shadow work and work through our traumas and childhood wounds.
There’s also building one’s self-worth and confidence after experiencing any type of abuse and learning how to set boundaries and stand up for yourself.
But that’s not all. There’s another major aspect of self-concept and identity that’s directly connected to manifesting love.
And that’s uncovering our true self from under the layers of family conditioning.
I’m not blaming anyone in this blog post. I’m simply saying that each family system has a certain type of conditioning and that creates a person’s identity and personality.
As adults, it’s our role to uncover who we truly are from under the layers of family and societal conditioning.
Examples of Family Conditioning
Let me share a simple example from my personal story. I was raised by parents who strongly believed in hard work, success, education and career. They didn’t know how to be social or to have fun.
Their identities are a result of their own childhood conditioning and family situations.
After working in IT support for many years, then founding a life coaching business that failed, I realized that I’m not born to be a business owner or a corporate employee.
I’m meant to be a creative solopreneur. I’m meant to be a writer, a creative and a blogger.
But identity is not only about career. The way we engage with others and the world, the way we choose to dress, the lifestyles we lead, the choices we make in each moment of our days. All of these things are entirely shaped by our family conditioning.
After doing a great amount of inner work, I realized that I’m not a city person. You can read the story of how I discovered my true self with a 2024 Bangkok trip here.
Travel is one powerful way to help us discover aspects of our true self that we didn’t even know existed.
But if you can’t travel for any reason, I have great news for you!
My ebook titled: The Insecure GIrl’s Guide to Manifesting True Love is designed to help you find your true self. And there’s an entire chapter about this topic, with practical steps and tips for how to connect with the real you.
So if you feel like your personality and identity is overshadowed by the beliefs and ideas of your parents or caretakers, then this is your chance to do something about it and to fast-track manifesting your person!
Imagine spending a lifetime not knowing who you really are in essence. Not who your parents made you think you are. Not who your career defines you to be. Not who your extended family or society think you are. But the soul essence that makes up each person’s unique personality and identity.
Get the ebook now and get closer to manifesting love. Oh and we’re in the year of the fire horse, which rewards bold actions and movement.
We all know that we will keep repeating the same patterns and habits and our reality won’t change, until we do.
Love,
Leela
